Everything will be questioned before God Almighty. Therefore, one should always speak pure and good words. Language has a profound effect on relationships. There is a magnetic attraction inside the good word. The tongue of the believer is protected from filthy and filthy words. His word is pure. The attributes of the believer are described in the hadith that he is neither a slanderer, nor a slanderer, nor a filthy tongue. He is shy and the tongue of the shy person is under his control. The etiquette of speech is explained below in the light of the Holy Quran and the hadiths so that we can become believers by following the comprehensive guidance of Islam to protect our language.
If you say something, always tell the truth. Don't talk complicated The greatest virtue after monotheism is to embrace the truth. Allaah says in the Qur'aan: O you who believe! Fear Allah and say what is true. (Surat al-Ahzab) Then the result of speaking the truth is that the conversation should be done with common sense and clarity. His speech was very sweet and heartwarming. He used to talk very slowly, when he had to emphasize something, he would repeat it two or three times so that the listeners would remember. One should speak purely because it is mentioned in the hadith that pure word is also charity. (Bukhari and Muslim) and is also a means of protection from fire. One should speak without difficulty and fabrication, nor should one speak with one's tongue twisted. The Jews used to twist their tongues and distort words.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Those who twist their tongues while speaking, such people will stay away from me on the Day of Resurrection. (Jami 'al-Tirmidhi) Exaggeration should not be used in conversation. It is narrated from Ibn Mas'ud that the Holy Prophet (sws) said that those who resort to exaggeration perished. He said this three times. (Sahih Muslim) One should not talk nonsense and obscenity. Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar, while mentioning him, said that he was neither obscene nor did he intentionally utter obscenities.
(Sahih Bukhari)
It is narrated from Ibn Mas'ud that the Holy Prophet (sws) said that a believer is not a seller of obscenities, a slanderer and a slanderer.
(Jami 'al-Tirmidhi)
Therefore, one should avoid obscenity and ask for forgiveness frequently.
Language has a profound effect on all morals. Therefore, it is obligatory on the believers not to speak harshly. Do not curse or curse anyone. Don't swear because it is immoral that destroys a person's faith. It is said in the hadith that cursing a believer is tantamount to killing him. (Sahih Bukhari) It is the duty of the believer to cover his brother. Therefore, abominable evil like backbiting should be avoided in conversation. Addressing the believers, Allah says: وَلَا يَغْتَبَ بَعْضُكُم بَعْضًا ۚ َُيُحِبُّ حَحَدُكُمْ يَن يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ خَخِيهِ مَيْتًا (If this is attributed to you) you will dislike it. It is narrated in Surah Al-Hamzah. The torment is the torment for every backbiter and slanderer. Gossiping, slandering. And slander in lineage is a sign of disbelief. It is narrated in the hadith that such a person cannot enter Paradise.
Don't laugh with contempt during the conversation. O you who believe! No nation should make fun of a nation by despising it, it may be better than them. Nor should women despise other women. Maybe those women are better than them. There is nothing wrong with having a good sense of humor in a conversation, but don't make a joke that is mean and offensive to others. The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had a cheerful temperament and sometimes spoke in a humorous manner. One should not talk too much because there is a fear of spreading mischief among the people. Without the remembrance of Allah, the abundance of words hardens the heart and the heartless man is farther away from Allah than anyone else.
(Riyadh Al-Saliheen)
Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh! The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was endowed with this perfect attribute by Allaah. He should think and speak with intellect. When talking, you should know the mood, even if you don't want to say something that will make the other person angry. Speak in a way that is understandable to the addressee, so that he can understand the point well and remove his misunderstanding. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) commanded the people to speak according to their understanding and comprehension. (Dilmi) The Holy Prophet was a great pulse. He always responded by judging the nature of man. Whenever the Companions asked him a question or a problem, he always answered according to his understanding and condition. One should not speak hastily in anger and excitement but should speak with restraint because what is said in undue anger loses its effect. Talking with anger under control is a sign of courage and masculinity. If there is no opportunity or good thing to say, then one should remain silent. The Holy Prophet (sws) often remained silent and never spoke unnecessarily. He used to say that a person who believes in Allah and the Last Day should say a good word or remain silent.
(Forty nodi)
What is heard should not be spread further. Spreading rumors severely damages the integrity and peace of the society. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that it is a great lie for a person to spread every word without thinking about it. (Muslim) It is a sin to spread rumors without listening to each other, The attack takes place and he becomes infamous. The hadith says that there will be severe punishment for such people. One should not lie even in jest and one should not present the lie in the color of truth. Because lying is a poison that kills a person and leads to hell. If a person gets into the habit of lying only in humor, then he becomes a victim of serious lies. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): وَاجْتَنِبُوْا قُوْلَ الزُّوْرِ (Al-Hajj: 31) Beware of lying. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was the most truthful and truthful. He used to count lying as a grave sin. It is haraam to lie just to make you laugh and make you happy. He used to say. Destruction is for the person who speaks and lies in it so that people may laugh at it. For him, there is only death and destruction, then for him there is destruction and ruin.
False testimony should never be given. Whether it's your parents, real siblings or relatives. Allah Almighty describes the believers as saying that they do not give false testimony. They should not swear in words. Regarding the believers, Allah says that they refrain from vain oaths. It is a very bad trait for a person to talk to whomever he goes to. This is hypocrisy. One should not listen here and there and listen here and there, because it spreads mischief.
Don't exaggerate while praising someone. Such praise is disgusting. One should not interrupt during the conversation. When one person is talking, one should pay attention to him and listen to him. When two people are talking to each other and they dislike the fact that someone is talking to them. One should not be curious or listen to them. Elders should not talk loudly in front of them. Instead, talk to them with literature. If a person speaks inappropriately in a meeting, he should be informed, and if a person speaks well, it is permissible to praise him. If he is in the toilet, he should not talk to anyone.
So we have to protect our language. Don't hurt anyone with your hands and your tongue. Speak up whenever you can. We should be straightforward and always talk in a friendly manner, keeping in mind all the etiquettes of the word. So that we may be guided by the Holy Word of God and the good news.
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